#introduction post go!
I'm Nikolai, also known as Ben or Arden.
I'm a 40 y/o trans dude living in OR with my nesting partner, their sister, and their kiddo.
I'm a hot mess of disabilities and chronic illness, the main ones being Ehlers Danlos, Chronic Migraines, POTS, and CFS- and all the not-so-lovely comorbidities they usually come with.
I'm not sure how to label myself- otherkin or therian, but it's complicated™ I'm also a casual furry.